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When the Stuck get Stucker
When a horse has a stiff and unyielded part, it
can cause havoc in our barrel turns. Most of the lessons that we do at the
ranch involve correcting a part of the horse that is not yielding. BUT, the
other side of that coin is this: If you have not correctly identified the
problem area and you start softening and yielding the wrong part, soon the
horse that was stuck is now stucker. Now he is not only stuck, but confused.
Also, if the horse is not corrected and taught to yield in the right way, he
becomes scared and angry. Now we have a horse that is confused, scared and
angry. There is one more thing, he must be corrected out of a training
attitude and not an attitude of anger and abuse. This will cause him to bunch
up to protect himself. So, the horse with the stuck part that was
incorrectly identified, taught to yield in the wrong way and trained with
anger and abuse has turned from stuck to scared, angry, confused and bunched
up to protect himself. He may feel hard sided and dead mouthed by now. That
is his only defense to ignorance. He went from stuck to stucker to
stuckest. When we get a horse like this in training, it involves regaining
his trust and applying the softening training in increments of time and
patience, rewarding each step of obedience and gently correcting his wrong
moves.
Devotion # 25 dealt with rebuking, correcting,
exhorting and reproving people. The other side of that coin is this: We have
to KNOW that God is showing us where this person is stuck and that He wants to
use us to help them. Then, we have to know what the Word of God says about
the subject. In other words, if we try to apply our own reasoning's and
opinions, we are spitting in the wind. This will confuse the person. We have
to know God's word because it is the Word of God that is true and accurate and
will perform what He sends it to do. Jeremiah 1:12 Secondly, if we do not
teach and correct in the right way, the person can become scared or angry.
Thirdly, our attitude is commanded in scripture to be one of gentleness,
meekness, kindness, patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2 We are also warned
to be careful lest we fall into the same sin we see our brother or sister in.
2 Peter 3:17 and 1 Corinthians 10:12
When a person has been exhorted, rebuked or
corrected wrongly and by the wrong attitude, they become hardened and bunch up
to protect themselves. They become as difficult to reach as that horse that
has gotten to the stage of stuckest. The stuckest people I know are very
protective of themselves. I am not saying that it is always because someone
tried to help in the wrong way, but it is something I see often. A brother
offended is harder to be won than a walled, fortified city. Proverbs 18:19
But, they can be reached by someone who stands in the authority of the Word
with kindness, patience and love. Perhaps you are an angel on assignment to
someone you know or work with who is in the stage named stuckest.
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